Mu'aaz bin Jabal(Radhi:)

According to this hadith,we should not spare the rod in checking the children from becoming reckless in doing anything they like.Sometimes it is necessary to use the beginning and, when the   children get spoilt,we cry and complain about them. To spare the rod and to spoil the child is surgical operation under advice from a doctor for the  simple reason that it would cause pain to him?The Prophet( Sallallaho alaihe wasallam) is reported to have said very often: "Enjoin salaat on your child when he is seven years old,and beat him if he neglects it after he reaches ten."Hadhrat Abdullah bin Mas'ood (Radhiyallaho anho)says, "Guard the salaat of your children and inculcate good habits in them".Luqmaan the wise used to, "The use of the rod on a child is as indispensable as is water for the fields. "The Prophet(Sallallaho alaihe wasallam) is reported to have said. "A person while admonishing his children earns more reward from Allah than when he is spending about seven pounds of grain in His path."In another hadith the Prophet  (Sallallaho alaihe wasallam) has said. "May Allah bless a person who keeps a lash hanging in his house for the admonishing of his house- folk."On another occasion he said. "No father can bestow anything better on his children than to teach them good manners. "
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Mu'aaz bin Jabal (Radh:)

Hadhrat Mu'aaz bin Jabal(Radhiyallaho anho)narrates: "The Prophet  (Sallallaho alaihe wasallam) enjoined upon me ten things, viz,'Do not ascribe anything as partner unto Allah, though you may be slain or burnt alive; do not disobey your parents, though you may have to part with your wife or your entire wealth; do not neglects fardh salaat,intentionally,for Allah is free from obligation to a person who neglects fardh salaat intentionally; do not take wine, for it is an evil habit;that is the root of every vice;do not commit disobedience of Allah, for that brings the wrath of Allah. Do not turn your back to the enemy in battle,though all your comrades may have fallen. Do not fly from the locality where an epidemic has broken out. Do spend on your family members according to your capacity; let your rod be hanging on them,as a warning and to chastise against neglect of their duties towards Allah. "  

The happiness of the world is peace in Akhira

The happiness of the world is not happiness. The happiness of the whole world is great happiness, the work of the world is not the work. It is the order of Allah's Prayer for five times. This is a great task. If the command of Mahan Allah Allah and the Prophet (peace be upon him) walk in the direction of the Prophet, peace be upon him,